I'm a loyal person.
I keep a small circle of close friends. Always have. Chalk it up to nerdiness, academia, introversion, et al. I don't always know whether it's the best model, but it's the model I've adopted. It enables me to put my best into each relationship. As with multitasking, the more inputs clamoring for your time and attention, the less each receives.
Tasks, of course, are not people. While you may stay up all night with a task, it doesn't embrace you in the morning. You don't take bullets for tasks. You don't wake up every morning asking yourself how you can make a task feel special today. A task doesn't care.
People matter, but it takes a lot to find the good ones. There are over seven billion of them out there, and only a handful are worth knowing. I've met a few, and to them I hold on as tightly as I can.
Even after months and years, real loyalty is unwavering. Often inexplicably so. At times, against better judgment.
I live to make you feel safe. Beautiful. Invincible.
But I can only do so much from here.
The problem with loyalty is that it creates attachment, and attachment invariably leads to suffering.
My heart is loyal to a fault.